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Duwe Farris

ON THE MOVE

ON THE MOVE

Over the last few months, we have been super busy out here in Rwanda. Some of the highlights were hosting the U.S. Embassy at one of our biggest events of the year. Getting on the jumbotron at the Rwanda vs. Lesotho soccer game, traveling to Kenya and getting to see the largest slum in Africa - and an awesome non-profit fit right inside, and getting to play A LOT of basketball. 

Rwanda VS Lesotho

I have begun getting into more of a food routine - commonly eating a very similar collection of foods each day. My diet consists of rice, beans, potatoes, avocados, mangos, onions, and many eggs. My neighbour sells eggs at her house and she knows to load up the 30 pack every couple days. I have decided that no matter how often I eat avocado toast with eggs on top, it is delicious every time. A huge revelation for me has been discovering how incredible sauteed onions are. Not sure how this slipped through the cracks for me back in the U.S. but it is now a staple. As my diet has gotten a bit more consistent and my stomach has adjusted, I have been holding onto weight better than I did in the first few months.

Another recent food revelation is how delicious goat meat is. I’m not sure why the U.S. is anti-goat, but is it incredible. One of my favorite foods out here is goat kebabs (called brochette). I will certainly be sharing this flavor sensation when I get back to the States. However, in recognizing that some folks might have some mental apprehensions over it, I plan to introduce covertly. You thought that was beef in the bolognese??

I’ve found that it is easy to get caught in my routine and not explore as much as I did in the beginning of the fellowship. I have been trying to get out more because I never know what I’ll walk into. For example, while visiting an Art Gallery in Kigali (whose owner, Innocent, actually taught a few lectures at UNC last spring), I noticed there were a few high-school aged kids playing a large cow-hide set of drums and dancing to the drum beat. Out of pure curiosity, I asked Innocent if there was a performance or if the kids just come and dance for fun. He said that they are on a dance team and are practicing for an upcoming performance. He then asked if I wanted to learn how to play the drums. Not wanting to interrupt their practice, I politely declined. However, Innocent insisted and so I hopped in and began playing. After a learning period, the kids began dancing to my drum beat, although it was not quite as succinct as when they were playing the drums.. Then the kids asked if I wanted to learn the dances and after these kids showed me the kindness of dancing to my off-tempo beat, I said, “Sure, I’ll hop in for a song or two”. The next hour and a half of dance class left me dripping in sweat as my drill instructor and now friend, Astride, barked, “Incorrect, start again” many times over. These kids were not messing around and I felt lucky to be able to learn a few pieces of their culture.

Inema Art Center

My new moves came just in time for one of our biggest events of the year. International Women’s Day is a big deal at Shooting Touch and each year we host a big celebration complete with a 3v3 basketball tournament for four age groups, a 5km march, extensive health testing, traditional drum and dance performance, and this year, a guest appearance by the Charge D’Affaire of the U.S. Embassy. The event was not without chaos as at about 2AM the night before the event, we were informed by the police that the march was cancelled due to difficulties around traffic control that day. This presented a bit of a problem as about a thousand people were planning to be at that march and there wasn’t exactly an email chain or facebook group available to let them know of the change of plans. Fortunately, after an extensive sector-wide game of telephone we were able to convey the new agenda and the event ran smoothly and everyone had a great time. Four courts participated in the tournament, displaying some serious rivalries between the coaches, players, and courts. There was a tournament for U13 kids, U18 boys and girls, and the women and the players represented their “Home” Shooting Touch Court. The games got super competitive and were exciting all afternoon. 

International Women’s Day

Players from each of the courts take tremendous pride in representing their village in these events. These communities are very tight knit with many families living for generations in the same area. There is a lot of history in these communities and the players do not take that lightly.

The Fellows!

Before I knew I was going to live in Rwanda, one of the few things that I knew about the country was that a genocide had taken place in the 90s. I was advised that prior to moving, it was crucial to research and try to grasp an understanding the causes, scope, and effects of  the 1994 Genocide against the Tutsi. The events in 1994 have effects that trickle into nearly all facets of society. Upon arrival in Rwanda, one of our first stops was a trip to the Genocide Memorial in Kigali, which I can only describe as an emotional, graphic, and powerful description and reminder of the horrors that transpired 31 years ago.


As I have attempted to educate myself, a few facts have stood out:

  1. The primary cause of the the 1994 Genocide against the Tutsi were the social structures created by colonization in Rwanda following WW2. However, when the violence began, Rwanda received nearly no help from the west - in fact, the west denied that a genocide was taking place after countless reports. 

  2. After western countries denied support to stop the violence, the current Rwandan President, Paul Kagame, led a militia and ultimately defeated the government in place that was perpetrating the 1994 Genocide against the Tutsi. Instead of instituting a country led by his labeled ethnic group, he outlawed ethnic labeling and declared that all people in the country are Rwandan, nothing else. While Kagame has faced criticism over the years in the global media, I have never seen a country that loves their leader as much as Rwandan’s love Paul Kagame. I got to witness this first hand while attending a John Legend concert in Kigali. President Kagame was sitting in the box directly to my right and instead of watching the concert, many folks in the crowd faced away from the stage and just stared at Kagame. The announcement of Kagame at the concert resulted in pandemonium of support. 

  3. The effects of the 1994 Genocide Against the Tutsi permeate nearly every aspect of the country. Everyone over 31 years old has memories of what took place. 


Every April, there is a week of remembrance for the victims of the 1994 Genocide against the Tutsi in Rwanda. During this week public sporting events are cancelled, music is not allowed to be played, much of the transport is limited, and many restaurants and businesses close down. While many of my Rwandan friends are typically pretty quiet regarding the topics of the 1994 Genocide against the Tutsi, during this week many of their stories are shared. It’s one thing to hear the numbers, statistics, and chain of events of what transpired, but to hear your friends personal stories is truly heart wrenching.

To learn more about the 1994 Genocide Against The Tutsi, you can check out this link.


During a week off from work, I traveled to Kenya. My first stop was Nairobi - the capital city and one of the largest in Africa. I stopped by CFK Africa, a nonprofit founded by Rye Barker, a UNC graduate whom I met in Chapel Hill, a few months back. CFK has built a health center, pregnancy clinic, youth center, and sports program inside of Kibera - the largest slum in Africa. Kibera is a square 1km territory of government-owned land, filled with improvised housing for up to 1 million people. CFK is deeply embedded in the community and their work is incredibly important and inspiring. 

After the trip to Nairobi, I traveled to Mombasa, a beach town right on the Indian Ocean. The journey was exciting as I got to take a train straight through a safari park, seeing elephants, giraffes, ostriches, and zebras from the train. I spent the next few days hanging out by the beach, which is a drastic contrast in terrain from the land locked Rwanda. On my return to Nairobi for my flight, I caved…. And went to the nearest KFC. You should have seen the looks of horror on the faces of the folks in that restaurant as demolished a 5 piece bucket and large fry in 8 minutes.

Some talented fellas up in Kenya

Upon moving to Rwanda, I had no reference for any other countries in Africa. However, after seeing Kenya (which I loved), I could truly appreciate Rwanda. Rwanda is likely the cleanest and safest country in Africa. I can walk freely through any part of the city or village during all hours of the day and night. There is a comfort that comes from how reserved the folks are here. It is ambitious and growing rapidly in an incredibly sustainable way. 


Speaking of comfort, I got a nice healthy fix of March Madness games. I found that by using a VPN and the March Madness mobile app, I could stream fairly seamlessly. The only hiccup being the time zone but I am down to watch the Heels anytime, even at 4am. Although the next day is typically a bit on the slower side, especially after a loss. I showed my friend and Shooting Touch Coach, Isaie, March Madness and explained what a bracket is. As a total hoop head, Isaie was pretty stoked about the concept of making a bracket and put some good time and research into it. Fast forward to the final four and Isaie’s bracket was in the top .005% of brackets worldwide. Isaie made sure to check in with me after every round to see if his bracket was beating mine, which after a devastating first round Tarheel loss, my bracket was busted. Needless to say, I owe Isaie lunch. 


Learning Experiences

Learning Experiences

After two months, I’ve begun to start fitting in out here.

My priority the last month or so has been attempting to begin creating a routine - learn how to get around, what/where to eat, and start getting familiar with Kinyarwanda, the language of Rwanda. To broker a ceasefire in the war between my stomach and the local cuisine, significant concessions were made—namely, the surrender of about 20 pounds and a solemn vow to avoid any roadside meat priced under 50 cents… unless it looks or smells really good, then all bets are off. 

I have been on the road a TON, traveling from Kigali (the capital city) to Bugesera District (where Shooting Touch has 2 courts) to Kayonza District (Shooting Touch has 5 courts). From Kigali, it takes me about 4 hours to get to the village where I stay in Kayonza, and about 2 hours to get to my house in Bugesera. For those caught up on current events in Africa, the conflict occurring in the Democratic Republic of the Congo is taking place across the border from western Rwanda, on the complete opposite side of the country from where Shooting Touch operates, and does not affect my work or life in any way. 

Map of Rwanda and the Regions I live in

This travel takes many forms, ranging from taxis to buses to motorcycles (motos) to bicycles, to my new personal favorite, the chicken coop tuck-tuck. The chicken coop tuk-tuk, as I call it, is a motorcycle inside of a tuk-tuk frame with a sidecar attachment -  romanticized version of the moto with far more utility and opportunity for surface level conversation.

Kojo Taking the Chicken Coop Tuk-Tuk for a spin

It is common when getting any sort of taxi/moto/bike for the driver to name an absurdly high price and for a negotiation to break out. Unfortunately, as I have been more focused on Kinyarwanda words that help me make friends, my negotiation vocabulary is limited. I usually use the phrase, “amafaranga dyazi,” which means “I know the price,” although more times than not, I have no idea what the price is, nor do I know any numbers in Kinyarwanda. This leads to an exchange of sly facial expressions as the driver tries to call my bluff. Needless to say, negotiation is a work in progress.

A super cool realization for me is that the majority of the food I am eating is coming from the communities that I am living in. In Rwinkwavu, the village where I spend about half of my time, there is a community market every Saturday. Here, we’d go to stock up on rice, beans, potatoes, vegetables, and sometimes chicken. While there are butchers where you can buy chicken, it is incredibly fresh at the market. In fact, I’m not sure it is possible for it to be any fresher and sometimes you may even begin to build a sort of pet-like emotional connection with the chicken that you may or may not have named during the days you spend together, and that emotional connection sits in the back of your mind at night before you go to bed for a few days after the chicken has been … prepared. All of that to say, Ted the chicken is fresh, sustainable, and its purchase supports the community. 

Sunset in Rwinkwavu, Kayonza


Kinyarwanda is not easy. Rwanda is the only country in the world where a significant portion of the population speaks Kinyarwanda, so the resources online are very limited. My strategy thus far is to talk to my Rwandan friends and get a few punchlines, which I write down on my phone. My favorite phrases are 

  1. Ni iki gisekeje - “What is so funny?” - This is a great one to use if someone is making fun of you, although it typically results in more jokes being made.

  2. Twaba inshuti - “Can we be friends?” - I made the mistake of saying “Twaba ishati,” my first few times, which means “Will you be my shirt,” which I like to think could be some sort of endearing statement, yet judging by the responses I have received I don’t think it translates that way. 

  3. Ndishimye kukubona - “I am happy to see you.” - this one is my favorite greeting because it is not one that many non-Rwandans use, thus typically surprises folks. 

  4. Ukunda Kubzina - “Do you like to dance?” - Dancing is quite popular out here.

If you are attempting to try and pronounce these words at home, first try to sound them out as you would an English word. This will give you a reference of how not to pronounce them.

Sometimes I get lucky, and I can sneak through a 30-second conversation in which the person I am conversing with only says a handful of the 10 phrases I know and they think I actually know Kinyarwanda. However, most of the time neither me or the person I am talking to have any idea what is going on. The trickiest language error for me has been that “No” is translated to “Oya”, which is pronounced the same as “Oh Yeah” and I happen to say “Oh Yeah!” all the time at practice, which is super confusing for everyone.

My favorite conversations take place in the mornings before school starts in the village. As I walk anywhere, I typically am joined by between 1 and 30 elementary school kids in their uniforms on the way to school. The cool part about this conversation is that these elementary school kids are in the process of learning English and are at a slightly better English level than I am in Kinyarwanda. We both use our limited vocabulary and extensive dictionary of facial and hand expressions. Typically by the end of the 5-minute conversation, we have all gained a couple of new friends, solved a few of the world's problems, and set the world record for saying “How are you/Amakuru?” the most times in 5 minutes. 

The kids here remind me so much of the kids I used to coach during camps at UNC. They are funny and mischievous – and they love to make fun of the big goofy white kid. Most of the time, I have no idea what they are saying, but from years of being inside of locker rooms and from having a younger* brother I’ve learned to recognize the type of laughter and body language that arises from a good roast.  

*Note: I wrote “little brother” first, but I was reminded that I am in fact the little brother these days when I am around Oliver, especially with how I’ve slimmed out over here.

Some questionable style decisions

After presenting the mustache look, I was promptly asked “Are you ill?"


I’ve talked a little about Shooting Touch’s mission to use basketball as a tool to help address healthcare, gender, and other social issues, yet have talked little about what this actually looks like. Shooting Touch has 7 courts in Rwanda’s Eastern Province and every day, you will find no-cost, high-quality basketball practices led by an incredibly talented, fully-Rwandan coaching staff. The adult women begin at 4:00 p.m., the Imishwe (“little chickens” a.k.a. U13 boys and girls) practice at 5:00 p.m., and the U18 boys start at 6:00pm. The U18 Girls either practice at 5:00 or 6:00, depending on how dark it is. 

It is common to see 100+ participants in each age group, every single day. Each quarter throughout the year, there is a new joint basketball/health curriculum assigned to the coaches to implement into their weekly practice plan. While building basketball courts is the exciting development project that most people want to be a part of, it is the daily sport-for-health programming that makes the biggest impact.

Coach Nico holding the women’s Kitenge during a Shooting Touch practice. Kitenge is the term for traditional, colorful fabric used to make  dresses, skirts, etc. in Rwanda. Kitenge is a  huge part of the Rwandan culture, as well as the expected choice of clothing for women to wear in public. Shooting Touch women will commonly wear wrapped kitenge dresses on the way to practice and then take them off, revealing a pair of basketball shorts and an athletic t-shirt underneath. 


My days vary tremendously depending on what is going on. My job is to support the coaches in anything related to basketball, which ranges from working with the coaches on developmental basketball strategies, to attending practice and increasing engagement among program participants.

Coach Isaie proctoring a health survey to beneficiaries in Mayange, Bugesera District - You can always count on a nice sunset during practice

During our orientation, the phrase “decentering oneself” was a recurring topic. Decentering, for me, is making the work I am doing here not about me, but about the folks we are serving. At first, this felt super obvious - I thought, “Of course I'm not here to make this about myself.” Yet, after some great conversations with Chloe (Director of International Programming and Strategy) and Sam (Director of Communications), as well as some personal reflection, I realized this process was a little bit trickier than I first realized.

Upon arrival in Rwanda, I found myself viewing the country through the lens of my experience in America, constantly trying to make sense of what I was seeing based on what I knew back home. In the context of my job, this took the form of observing Shooting Touch, comparing what I know or have seen, and coming up with my own solutions to problems I thought I saw. 

Yet, I began to realize that I am viewing everything through my own lens, and that I have only a very basic understanding of the social, economic, and community dynamics in Rwanda. Through “making sense” or creating an explanation for the way things are, I am only creating a box to fit everything in based on what I know. 

A big part of attempting to understand the country and decenter myself has been acknowledging that I know very little about the way people live, think, and interact here, so it is futile to try to “make sense” of anything. Rather, my goal is to just live, interact, make some new shirts (and friends), and just take it all in. The beauty of this Fellowship is that Shooting Touch places you directly within the communities we serve, while setting you up with a support system, so there is no better place to learn.

I am looking forward to learning more.

Introduction to Rwanda

Introduction to Rwanda

Three weeks in, I am starting to get acclimated to Rwanda. 

To make a long story short as to how I got here, during my senior year at Chapel Hill, I wrote my thesis on various forms of International Aid and Development. As I researched, I stumbled across “sport-for-development,” which is the field of international development that uses sports to create growth and opportunity. The idea hooked me as it blended my academic interests with what I knew best, basketball. A few lucky conversations, interviews, overpriced vaccines, and a fundraiser later, and here we are. I am incredibly thankful for the many folks who helped me get here. 

I have been traveling around with Courtney and Kojo, the two other members of my Shooting Touch Fellowship cohort, both of whom are from NY, as well as Chloe and Sam, who are Shooting Touch’s Director of International Programming and Director of Communications, respectively. The first few weeks were focused on orientation, half of which took place in a classroom setting as we discussed culture, our roles, and Shooting Touch. The other half took place at the courts around Rwanda’s Eastern Province.

It has been exciting just to have to figure things out. After living in places I know so well in Charlotte and Chapel Hill, it was eye-opening, stressful, and exciting to realize that here, I know nothing. 

There are things that are very different; the language, the pace of life, and the food (while delicious, rich, and well-seasoned, there has been some conflict between the cuisine and my stomach… the two are currently in post-war peace talks, yet sporadic regional conflicts have slowed the treaty process), and the fact that no matter what I do, say, or wear, I will never blend in.

There are also things just so slightly different, such as new flowers or birds that I have never seen before, or the traffic rule that the car outside of the roundabout has right away, which after a few close calls becomes easily remembered. 

Yet, when moving to a place where everything feels new, ironically, it is the things that are the same that have stood out the most - the power of a simple polite gesture, the excitement of music, and the community of sports. 

Walking down the street, it is common to catch more than a few uncertain looks. Most people (including myself sometimes) wonder what the strange white man in Carolina Blue is doing here. However, early on, Chloe advised me that a quick gesture and a smile can completely break the stare and turn it into a smile. After two weeks, I know about four words in the Rwandan language, Kinyarwanda. My go-to is amakuru, which just means “how are you.” I say it about 400 times a day, but it works magic. I figure that as long as we find a little common ground, the rest will work out okay.

I’ve tried my best to speak Kinyarwanda and oftentimes when I do, I am met with a wave of laughter - I asked Chloe whether I was being laughed with or at, which she made it clear they were always laughing at me. Glad to play my part.  

I had heard that the music scene in Rwanda was incredible, and it was a priority to buy a guitar as soon as I could. Although I had hoped in the back of my mind that at some point I would find a couple of folks to play with, I had no idea that it would be the folks that would find me! Multiple times during travel, while I’ve had my guitar with me, I’ve been approached by folks who just want to play a song. One moment that particularly stood out came at a gelato shop, where the lady working the counter asked if she could sing while I played. The two of us performed a little duet that made me feel like Adele’s backup guitar player, as her talent far exceeded mine. Just a cool little moment that was special to me. 

The hoops culture in Rwanda is dope and humbling. I realized this on day one as I was being guarded full-court by someone's mom who was not wearing shoes. I sat in awe as 200 women surrounded one of our courts, cheering, singing, and dancing in support of the 60-year-old women launching threes and running in transition on the court in front of them. The recognizable human response of a roaring crowd comes after a deep jump shot. Shooting Touch has created an incredible grassroots basketball ecosystem. The program, aside from a little money coming from the states, operates almost entirely by Rwandans on the ground here. They have established an efficient system for training great coaches, and it shows that many of the Shooting Touch kids have received scholarships around the country for basketball. 

So far it has been a great experience. Rwanda’s land, development, wildlife, and culture are beautiful and vibrant. There is constant singing, smiling, and laughter. I certainly miss everyone back home a ton, but I am thankful that the service out here is good and I can hop on a phone call. I am excited to see everyone soon. 

Until next time,

Duwe